The Secret to a Happy Married Life.

serene wrote:

කිත්සිරි ද සිල්වා wrote:Why did you omit the (best) part before that Long Heavenly Sleep serene?
Chutiputha is a big boy now.  

serene wrote:
You only need to cuddle her and have a long heavenly Sleep...

ඒ ගැන චූටි අපට කියලා දෙයි කිත්..
දන්නවනෙද කාලෙ හැදෙන එව්වොන්ගෙ හැටි ..

pathfinder wrote:

chutiputha wrote:කෝ ඉතින් කව්රුවත් නැද්ද මේ ගැන දන්න කෙනෙක්?????
විශේෂයෙන්ම විවාහක අය දන්නවා ඇති...

chutiputha wrote:කවුද දන්නේ බේසමට බොරළු කැට 1000 පුරවන කතාව සහ පළමු මගුල් සංවත්සරය සහ ඉන් පසු මගුල් ජීවිතය...?????

කතා නම් එමටයි පුතා ඒත් මෙතන කියන්න බැහැනේ

HUNTER wrote:Well, in my case only one method made the married life happy.
Few method tried and failed are;

1. Making her to decide on expenses - failed! (She finds some way or other to spend the whole amount in hand in no time)

2. Making decision on 'big item' purchases such as vehicle, house etc. - Failed! (She is more interested in 'showing off' aspects rather than necessities)

3. Do things to keep her happy - Failed! (Whatever do will make her happy for s short period of time only, then we need to make a bigger effort next; and it's a never ending loop)

4. Be sympathetic to her grievances - Failed! (This is a weak point of male; she always capitalize on this; and result will be disastrous for all)

There are few more 'not worked' methods.

However, there is one method works fine for me at the moment.

* Be a man and say; do it 'my way' or get out to 'highway'.

Believe it or not; it works like a magic.

(Beware! not all men or women are alike)

කිත්සිරි ද සිල්වා wrote:දියතලාවෙ හයිවේ එකක් නැහැනේ
So what should he do then?
Hope not go Hunting.

HUNTER wrote:Well, in my case only one method made the married life happy.
Few method tried and failed are;

1. Making her to decide on expenses - failed! (She finds some way or other to spend the whole amount in hand in no time)

2. Making decision on 'big item' purchases such as vehicle, house etc. - Failed! (She is more interested in 'showing off' aspects rather than necessities)

3. Do things to keep her happy - Failed! (Whatever do will make her happy for s short period of time only, then we need to make a bigger effort next; and it's a never ending loop)

4. Be sympathetic to her grievances - Failed! (This is a weak point of male; she always capitalize on this; and result will be disastrous for all)

There are few more 'not worked' methods.

However, there is one method works fine for me at the moment.

* Be a man and say; do it 'my way' or get out to 'highway'.

Believe it or not; it works like a magic.

(Beware! not all men or women are alike)

chutiputha wrote:Why Fox Hill Track..It's also quite Good..

කිත්සිරි ද සිල්වා wrote:දියතලාවෙ හයිවේ එකක් නැහැනේ
So what should he do then?
Hope not go Hunting.

HUNTER wrote:Well, in my case only one method made the married life happy.
Few method tried and failed are;

1. Making her to decide on expenses - failed! (She finds some way or other to spend the whole amount in hand in no time)

2. Making decision on 'big item' purchases such as vehicle, house etc. - Failed! (She is more interested in 'showing off' aspects rather than necessities)

3. Do things to keep her happy - Failed! (Whatever do will make her happy for s short period of time only, then we need to make a bigger effort next; and it's a never ending loop)

4. Be sympathetic to her grievances - Failed! (This is a weak point of male; she always capitalize on this; and result will be disastrous for all)

There are few more 'not worked' methods.

However, there is one method works fine for me at the moment.

* Be a man and say; do it 'my way' or get out to 'highway'.

Believe it or not; it works like a magic.

(Beware! not all men or women are alike)

nihal123 wrote:

chutiputha wrote:Why Fox Hill Track..It's also quite Good..

කිත්සිරි ද සිල්වා wrote:දියතලාවෙ හයිවේ එකක් නැහැනේ
So what should he do then?
Hope not go Hunting.

HUNTER wrote:Well, in my case only one method made the married life happy.
Few method tried and failed are;

1. Making her to decide on expenses - failed! (She finds some way or other to spend the whole amount in hand in no time)

2. Making decision on 'big item' purchases such as vehicle, house etc. - Failed! (She is more interested in 'showing off' aspects rather than necessities)

3. Do things to keep her happy - Failed! (Whatever do will make her happy for s short period of time only, then we need to make a bigger effort next; and it's a never ending loop)

4. Be sympathetic to her grievances - Failed! (This is a weak point of male; she always capitalize on this; and result will be disastrous for all)

There are few more 'not worked' methods.

However, there is one method works fine for me at the moment.

* Be a man and say; do it 'my way' or get out to 'highway'.

Believe it or not; it works like a magic.

(Beware! not all men or women are alike)

චූටී පුතේ, නරියා කන්ද ලඟ ද ගේ තියේන්නේ.

chutiputha wrote:chutiputha wrote:
කවුද දන්නේ බේසමට බොරළු කැට 1000 පුරවන කතාව සහ පළමු මගුල් සංවත්සරය සහ ඉන් පසු මගුල් ජීවිතය...?????
Collect One බොරළු at a time,and put in to ur bucket.
for First Year Aprox ~ 3*25*12 => 900
U can collect 900 බොරළු.
And remove One බොරළු at a time starting from 2nd year.
U wont be able to take out all බොරළු before U Die....
Any Comments My Dear Experts..
This is a result of a research done by unknown person.
So dont take this as a joke,lets think..

කිත්සිරි ද සිල්වා wrote:I am confused now.
1 X 365 = 365 and how come you arrived at 900?
Unless you are trying to imply something else.
(If I got it right then my bucket will be empty in 3 months and not last forever).

chutiputha wrote:chutiputha wrote:
කවුද දන්නේ බේසමට බොරළු කැට 1000 පුරවන කතාව සහ පළමු මගුල් සංවත්සරය සහ ඉන් පසු මගුල් ජීවිතය...?????
Collect One බොරළු at a time,and put in to ur bucket.
for First Year Aprox ~ 3*25*12 => 900
U can collect 900 බොරළු.
And remove One බොරළු at a time starting from 2nd year.
U wont be able to take out all බොරළු before U Die....
Any Comments My Dear Experts..
This is a result of a research done by unknown person.
So dont take this as a joke,lets think..

HUNTER wrote:Well, in my case only one method made the married life happy.
Few method tried and failed are;

1. Making her to decide on expenses - failed! (She finds some way or other to spend the whole amount in hand in no time)

2. Making decision on 'big item' purchases such as vehicle, house etc. - Failed! (She is more interested in 'showing off' aspects rather than necessities)

3. Do things to keep her happy - Failed! (Whatever do will make her happy for s short period of time only, then we need to make a bigger effort next; and it's a never ending loop)

4. Be sympathetic to her grievances - Failed! (This is a weak point of male; she always capitalize on this; and result will be disastrous for all)

There are few more 'not worked' methods.

However, there is one method works fine for me at the moment.

* Be a man and say; do it 'my way' or get out to 'highway'.

Believe it or not; it works like a magic.

(Beware! not all men or women are alike)

chutiputha wrote:chutiputha wrote:
කවුද දන්නේ බේසමට බොරළු කැට 1000 පුරවන කතාව සහ පළමු මගුල් සංවත්සරය සහ ඉන් පසු මගුල් ජීවිතය...?????

Collect One බොරළු at a time,and put in to ur bucket.
for First Year Aprox ~ 3*25*12 => 900
U can collect 900 බොරළු.
And remove One බොරළු at a time starting from 2nd year.
U wont be able to take out all බොරළු before U Die....
Any Comments My Dear Experts..

This is a result of a research done by unknown person.
So dont take this as a joke,lets think..

HUNTER wrote:

Yes decades. It seems men become wise only after 35~40.

nihal123 wrote:

chutiputha wrote:chutiputha wrote:
කවුද දන්නේ බේසමට බොරළු කැට 1000 පුරවන කතාව සහ පළමු මගුල් සංවත්සරය සහ ඉන් පසු මගුල් ජීවිතය...?????

Collect One බොරළු at a time,and put in to ur bucket.
for First Year Aprox ~ 3*25*12 => 900
U can collect 900 බොරළු.
And remove One බොරළු at a time starting from 2nd year.
U wont be able to take out all බොරළු before U Die....
Any Comments My Dear Experts..

This is a result of a research done by unknown person.
So dont take this as a joke,lets think..

කිත්සිරි,චූටිපුතා බේසමේ බොරළු කැට 1000 ඉවරකරන්න හදන්නේ බඳින්නත් ඉස්සර

chutiputha wrote:I Love to Have 3 Kids...What do u think about that?

කිත්සිරි ද සිල්වා wrote:Not a bad idea.  
( From one wife or from three different ones )  

chutiputha wrote:I Love to Have 3 Kids...What do u think about that?

HUNTER wrote:Children:

In my case, I let wife to decide how many.
And I decided how less.

If both decided how many, by now, we would have at least 10.

I had a simple theory fro one of my friends;
'have as many as you can but when you retire, they should be able to be on their own'

This friend was postponing the marriage always. After that talk I saw him with his wife couple of months later.
Later he said, that was the best advice he ever received from a friend.
He has decided to have only one child saying it is too late and too costly now for more.

He didn't want to compromise quality against quantity.

dhanurrox wrote:

HUNTER wrote:Children:

In my case, I let wife to decide how many.
And I decided how less.

If both decided how many, by now, we would have at least 10.

I had a simple theory fro one of my friends;
'have as many as you can but when you retire, they should be able to be on their own'

This friend was postponing the marriage always. After that talk I saw him with his wife couple of months later.
Later he said, that was the best advice he ever received from a friend.
He has decided to have only one child  saying it is too late and too costly now for more.

He didn't want to compromise quality against quantity.

the perfect amount is three.